In this manner, from ancient times the relations between mother and children have been
hallowed as a result of the purity, the virtue and the integrity of the children. The relationship
was full of love, mutual esteem, intense devotion and nectarine sweetness. The children had deep
love for the mother. Today the children have no respect for the mother. Mothers have also little
concern for the children. With the result, the Kali age has become Kalaha age, the age of discord.
Who are responsible for this situation? The mothers are the root cause. It is because of the
pampering of the children in all sorts of ways by the mothers that the children tend to go astray.
After the Burma war (in the Forties), a mother and her son came to Madras as refugees. This son
used to go out begging for food and bring it home for both of them to eat. Seeing the pathetic
condition of the young one, the mother said that from the next day she herself would go out for
getting food, leaving the boy in the shed. Moreover no mother would like to see her son going
out as a beggar. For this reason also she decided to go out herself. For some days she went out
begging, but could manage to get only a small amount of food. She gave the food to the child
and starved herself, but told him that she had already eaten.
After some time the woman was too
weak to go out begging. The son started going out to beg for food and kept feeding his mother.
Her condition deteriorated from day to-day. She could not bear the pangs of hunger. The son
went out and begged for food at an officer's residence. The officer, who was glancing through the
day's newspaper, heard the boy's cry for food to appease his hunger. The Officer brought some
food and gave it to the boy and asked him to eat it in his presence.
The boy said he would not eat there, but take the food home. The Officer questioned him why he
would not eat there when he was hungry. "You are not really hungry. You are lying," shouted the
officer. The boy was too weak to stand and dropped down at the feet of the officer with the food
in his hands.
The officer noticed that the boy was muttering some words to himself. He went
close to the boy's mouth and heard him say: “First for mother, first for mother." Saying those
words, the boy passed away.
Children should abide by mother's injunctions. What an example is this of the love of a mother and the devotion of a son. Even though he was
hungry, he wanted to give the food first to his mother. Does this kind of feeling exist even a little
among students today?
(From the Divine Discourses of Bhagawan Sri Sathya Sai Baba)

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